Reflecting on 2025
Reflecting on 2024
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Looking back over the past year. |
1. What were the highlights or accomplishments of the past year?
The first highlight was our granddaughter’s wedding in January.
The next highlight was Brian/OJ retired in May! We also moved into our little fixer upper, now our cozy retirement house, in May.
I guess the other main highlight has been continuing to post YouTube videos. We were monetized late in 2023, and we’re now earning coffee money from our videos! 😁
2. What were the major themes of the past year?
Well that’s easy! Work! What’s new, right?! We spent the majority of 2024 renovating the little fixer upper we bought in November of 2023. And again, consistently putting out YouTube videos all year! This year we documented all of our renovations.
3. What disappointments or regrets did you experience?
I can’t think of any disappointments or regrets! We’re enjoying being back home in our little house, and it’s great to have my husband home all the time!
4. What was missing from the past year?
I guess the one thing missing was free time. It’s been a very busy year, but as we come to the end of the year, things are slowing down, and we’re looking forward to the coming year.
5. What did you learn from the past year?
I learned that even in our mid sixties, we’re capable of doing a huge renovation project. I’ve also confirmed that this is the last time we do this! It’s time to slow down, relax, and enjoy retired life. Hopefully, Brian learned the same thing! 😃
Reflecting On 2023
Looking back over the past year.
1. What were the highlights or accomplishments of the past year?
The biggest highlight of the past year was Emberley having her final chemo! Another highlight was the birth of another grandson. Justin and Ruth welcomed a baby boy in August. Then in September, Jeremy and Ashley had a beautiful outdoor wedding.
In November we bought a little fixer upper! Brian will be retiring in the spring, and decided we should move back to our home town. The beginning of a new adventure!
2. What were the major themes of the past year?
I don’t know that there was any particular theme the past year, other than consistently putting out YouTube videos all year!
But come fall the theme was decluttering and downsizing, in preparation for a move to our little house in Carberry in spring of 2024. Then in November, the theme became renovations!
3. What disappointments or regrets did you experience?
I can’t think of any disappointments or regrets! I’m excited about moving ‘home’! It’s a lot of work to get the house ready, but it’s what we do, and we enjoy working together.
4. What was missing from the past year?
I can’t say that anything was missing from this past year. Emberley coming to the end of her chemo made anything else very unimportant. I’m just so thankful that she is through that stage and pray that she’ll continue to gain back her strength and her immune system.
5. What did you learn from the past year?
That my husband is crazy! I’m pretty sure he’s finding that out for himself, having taken on this renovation project! But I I’m crazy too, so we make a good pair. 😃
You can follow our progress on our YouTube channel, Coffee Walks and Whatever https://youtube.com/@CoffeeWalksandWhatever?si=eCCtJsxrWayTIQHs
Reflecting On 2022
1. What were the highlights or accomplishments of the past year?
The highlight of the past year was the Brian starting a YouTube channel in March. It came about when we were brain storming ways to raise funds to help out Justin during Emberley’s illness. We were watching a young guy walking around his city making videos and Brian thought, “I could do that!’ and so he did! It can be difficult coming up with a video at least once a week, but for the most part, it’s been fun and we’re looking forward to new adventures in the coming years.
I don’t know if I’d call it a highlight, but seeing Emberley out of the hospital more this past year has definitely been a blessing!
Attending church starting in spring when the mask mandates were lifted has been a highlight. Different from what we’re used to but we’re settling in and enjoying being there.
2. What were the major themes of the past year?
Emberley’s continued treatment for Leukemia has been the main theme.
The other constant has been the YouTube channel; coming up with places to go for a walk and trying out different ideas has been fun and challenging and definitely getting us out and about!
3. What disappointments or regrets did you experience?
I can’t really think of anything I would consider a disappointment or a regret. Of course we would love to see Emberley completely healthy and not undergoing treatment, but we’re looking forward to her ringing that chemo bell after her last treatment, hopefully in June.
4. What was missing from the past year?
I read my answer from last year and decided, it works for this year too… I guess I’m missing just having a normal life, one where I don’t have a granddaughter with cancer.
5. What did you learn from the past year?
I guess the main thing would be that we’re never to old to try something new or make a huge life change.
If we spend too much time focused on the negative things in this world or in our personal lives, it just gets us down. It’s so much better to have a positive outlook and make changes that will improve our lives. Some of those changes are just getting out of our comfort zone and getting in front of a camera. Others are more significant, like letting go of some things from the past, deciding to go visit a church and finding that maybe it’s the right place for us.
Reflecting On 2021
Continuing my yearly tradition of looking back over the past year.
1. What were the highlights or accomplishments of the past year?
The highlight of the year was the birth of our granddaughter, Emilia. Another highlight was Jeremy moving back to Manitoba and starting work at a gold mine in Snow Lake.
Reconnecting with old friends through our fundraisers was a highlight…as well as meeting new people. Aside form those there weren’t a lot of highlights this year!
2. What were the major themes of the past year?
Illness seemed to be the theme of the year…covid in January, then Emberley’s leukemia diagnosis in March and continuing treatment, illnesses and hospitalization have taken up the year.
3. What disappointments or regrets did you experience?
No personal regrets, but the whole year has been disappointing….disappointing circumstances, disappointing relationships.
4. What was missing from the past year?
That’s a hard question. I guess I’m missing just having a normal life, one where I don’t have a granddaughter with cancer.
5. What did you learn from the past year?
You learn a lot when you have a crisis in your life. Most important is that with God we can get through anything. Second..life can change in a moment, we have no guarantee of tomorrow, so don’t take anything for granted. Third, you learn a lot about who you can count on and unfortunately, who you can’t. Covid had already revealed the true nature and character of many. But when our granddaughter was diagnosed with Leukemia some of the people I thought would be there to support us, encourage us and just be there to talk….or listen, were nowhere to be found. But at the same time, people I never would have thought of stepped up and stood in that gap…some were old friends, some just acquaintances and many were complete strangers. Until you go through something like this you don’t realize just how much a kind word can help. A phone call, a text message, a face book comment or even just a virtual hug and praying hands mean so much.
I hope I’ve learned to be that kind of person for others as well. I’ve never been good at knowing what to say to someone going through a rough time, but I’ve realized it doesn’t really matter what you say. It’s just taking the time to show that you care that makes all the difference. Years ago I wrote a song that speaks of this very thing.
Words Fitly Spoken
When you see someone that's hurting, do you say,
and do you share their burden, and brighten up their day?
Do you give them some comfort, as the word of God you share,
or do you ease their heartache, by showing that you care?
When we heed the Spirit’s prodding
we’ll never have regrets for the choices we have made.
And we may never know what a few words fitly spoken,
may do to lift the load of one who’s heart is broken.
weighing on your heart,
don’t let the moment pass by; just call or send that card.
You’ll quickly mend some fences when you take that step of faith,
for there’s no wound or chasm too deep for God’s great grace.
When we heed the Spirit’s prodding
we’ll never have regrets for the choices we have made.
And we may never know what a few words fitly spoken,
may do to lift the load of one who’s heart is broken.
don’t push that thought aside; don’t say I’ll waste my time.
A friendly hand extended may just help someone in need,
so kindle an old friendship, and allow the Lord to lead.
When we heed the Spirit’s prodding
we’ll never have regrets for the choices we have made.
And we may never know what a few words fitly spoken,
may do to lift the load of one who’s heart is broken.
Galatians 6:2 Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.
Philippians 2:1,2 If there be therefore any consolation in Christ, if any comfort of love, if any fellowship of the Spirit, if any bowels and mercies, Fulfil ye my joy, that ye be likeminded, having the same love, being of one accord, of one mind.
Proverbs 25:11 A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver.
Reflecting On 2020
1. What were the highlights or accomplishments of the past year?
- I guess the biggest highlight came right at the end of the year when Brian left his position as Maintenance Manager at the hotel to take the job of head Custodian at the school here in town. It should be a little slower pace...at least once he has everything on his to-do list completed, possibly by next fall! haha
- With covid causing layoffs at the hotel, Daniel went in search of a new occupation and found it at Alternative Landscaping. While others collected CERB or EI, he worked from spring through to fall when he was again laid off. He's looking forward to going back in the spring.
- Springtime brought more family to our new town, with Dennis and Dana deciding to move here as well!
- In July we had a visit from our daughter in law, Naomi and the grandkids, as well as Naomi's sister. We all enjoyed a nice get together at Dennis and Dana's home, but missed seeing Lorne. We were thankful for the summer reprieve from covid!
- During a summer teen day camp, one of our granddaughters accepted Christ as her Saviour. That's a highlight worth mentioning!
- In the late fall, Jeremy moved back to Manitoba in preparation for a new job at a gold mine in Snow Lake MB, starting in January. It's a 2 weeks in and 2 weeks out job so we're looking forward to having him around...it's been a long 2 1/2 years of him living in Nova Scotia!
- Another year end highlight was our son Justin getting engaged to Ruth, a wonderful lady and welcome addition to our family, as well as news of a new grandbaby coming in May 2021.
- It seems the highlights all came at the end of the year. Justin started a course in taxidermy in December and hopes to start his own business when he's done. He also has the opportunity to use his videography skills doing some work for the college.
- The main theme of 2020 has been dealing with Covid 19. For me, life has not changed a lot except that for most of the year we've been doing online church because we aren't able to gather.
- Change seems to have been the other main theme for our family members...jobs/career, location and church. Besides those listed in highlights, our daughter Nicole ended her stint in the banking field and returned to healthcare. Two grandkids also started new jobs. Although we haven't been able to attend church much since summer, we've been enjoying online services.
- And everyone would be surprised if I didn't say renovations! I'm not sure we've had many years when working on a house wasn't a theme. haha, We managed to complete most of the projects we wanted to do here...adding insulation and drywall, getting rid of a lot of the old panelling. What can I say? we love working on houses!
3. What disappointments or regrets did you experience?
- I don't think disappointment or regret are the right words, but losing Mom in February was a difficult time. I miss her terribly, but I know she's home with our Saviour and one day I'll see her and Dad again. I can picture her there enjoying the most beautiful gardens and her very own waterfall.
- For most of the year....spending time with friends and family and attending church.
- This probably sounds strange, but I realized how little my life was changed when covid caused us to have to keep our distance from other people. Of course, I missed spending time with my family, but much of my communication with people is via text and the phone. For so many years my time was spent caring for children...it was easier to just stay home, and I got used to that. I know the same thing happened to Mom until it got hard for her to leave home. I know I have that tendency and it's something I need to be aware of and work to overcome. I need to make the effort to get out in our community and meet people, and to be more connected. Something to keep in mind when the covid restrictions are lifted.
Reflecting On 2019
Reflecting On 2018
Reflecting On 2015
This year I can say, I have no regrets, and have indeed embraced the changes in 2015, and am looking forward to what 2016 will bring.
Reflecting On 2014
1. What were the highlights or accomplishments of 2014?
The biggest highlight has been Brian starting back to work at the Royal Oak Inn & Suites, as Maintenance Manager. It feels like we've come full circle, with Brian back working where he was before we moved away.
Another highlight has once again been puppies....lots of puppies...followed by visits to the vet for spay and neuter surgeries! We do love placing puppies with happy families, but it's also a lot of work, and ties us down.
The final highlight of the year was Danica accepting Jesus as her Saviour on November 30th.
2. What were the major themes of the year?
Change has been the major theme this past year. After a short time at home, Justin went back to Alberta to work with Lorne again, then returned in July to start working at Armwood with Brian. With Brian's job change in August, Justin lost his ride to work in Portage and decided to get his own apartment, once again shrinking our family to five.
September brought another change, when we visited a different church, and made the decision to attend there.
3. What disappointments or regrets did you experience?
Last year, concerning regrets, I stated "we can't go back and change things." While that is true, I can learn from my regrets, and I can commit to a better today and tomorrow. With that thought in mind, I look forward to the changes that 2015 will bring, and pray for the strength to embrace them.
4. What was missing from the year?
Much like the previous year, we lacked clear direction, and for me personally, peace. But we are closing out the year with a much clearer vision of God's will for our family, and the accompanying peace.
5. What did you learn from the past year?
In 2013 I was reminded of the importance of being part of a community of faith, but we were still not sure where we fit in. We were trusting the Lord to show us, and to provide....and he has. It's taken some time to get over the difficulties we had experienced in previous churches, and to be ready to try again, but we've taken that first step, and we're looking forward to what 2015 brings.
Happy new year to all!
Reflecting On 2013
1. What were the highlights or accomplishments of 2013?
Reflecting On 2012
1. What were the highlights or accomplishments of 2012?
- Moving home and building our new house.
- The birth of two more grandsons
- Our son, Lorne and his family coming from Alberta to help with the house
- Signing Danica's adoption papers- God's timing is perfect!
2. What were the major themes of the year?
- One theme-our move! We took possession of the property in January, drew up the plans, sold our house, started construction in May, moved into a camper the end of June, moved into the house mid October...and continue to finish. There wasn't time for much else!
- Again, disappointment in fellow Christians, particularly leadership
- NO REGRETS!
- As always, time to relax!
- That in Christ's strength, we truly can do anything we set our minds (and bodies) to!
I'm also hoping to get back to blogging a little more, and hoping to get around to visit old friends out there! Wishing you all the best in 2013!
Reflecting On 2010
- Watching Brian turn a money pit into a beautiful house!
- Finding a home school method that works for our family
- A renewed relationship with our daughter and her family
- Hearing a long awaited decision concerning our foster daughter
- Stress!
- Long hours of work
- Waiting for other people to make life changing decisions for our family
- Making our own life changing decisions
- Not having enough free time to just enjoy our family
- Not having some issues resolved in a satisfactory way
- Gaining back much of the weight I lost at the beginning of the year!
- Fun and relaxation!
- Time with family
- I know even less this year than I thought I knew last year and the year before. But God knows, and I need to spend less time stressing and more time trusting!
- I'm lousy at maintaining a healthy lifestyle....but then I already knew that!
- If at first you don't succeed, try, try again....yup, knew that too.
Reflecting On 2009
*Trip to Alberta to visit our son and his family
*Being a friend when it wasn’t popular to do so
*The birth of three grandchildren!
*Changes for Mom & Dad – the move from the farm, and Dad’s poor health and subsequent death
*Unresolved conflict
3. What disappointments or regrets did you experience?
*Disappointment in people I trusted
*I regret not taking a stronger stand for what is right.
*I regret wasting a lot of time due to unwillingness to make difficult choices.
*Clear direction or vision
*An abundant spiritual life
*A close relationship with my daughters and grandchildren
*No matter what a person’s position, we all make mistakes.
*History truly does repeat itself!
*I know less this year than I thought I knew last year.
When I was finishing writing my book, "Stepping Stones Along My Journey," in 2008, I kept thinking, "Maybe I should wait; surely I'll be wiser next year! I've experienced so little....do I really have anything to say that's going to be a help to people?" I find myself feeling that way again, or perhaps, still........feeling that at the age of 51, surely I should be wiser, life should be simpler, the future clearer, more settled. 2009 has been a difficult year in many ways.....uncertainty about our foster daughter's future, some health issues for myself, Brian and Jerry, Mom and Dad's move from the farm, Dad's deteriorating health, and finally his recent death, but the most difficult has been an ongoing uncertainty about God's direction for our lives. Brian and I have spent the past year praying for a specific miracle and waiting on God's answer to some difficult questions....a miracle that we now know isn't going to happen. We have our answer, and our future is becoming a little clearer, but it doesn't mean the path ahead is going to be easier. But 2009 also had some wonderful highlights, such as the birth of three more grandchildren, and an answered prayer regarding our relationship with one of our daughters.
In spite of all the ups and downs of this past year, God has brought us through all the rocks and rubble on the road. If we just keep our eyes on him, he’ll lead the rest of the way. I'm so thankful that I don't have to know what is around the next curve in the road, I just have to trust the one who does!
Psalm 25:9 & 10 The meek will he guide in judgment: and the meek will he teach his way. All the paths of the Lord are mercy and truth unto such as keep his covenant and his testimonies.









