Reflecting on 2025
My Verse For 2026 Hebrews 4:16
Many years ago, our son and daughter in law gave me a book for Christmas, Memories For my Grandchild. I was supposed to fill in the pages, but never did, because I wanted to make my own book and add pictures. I thought that way I could make copies for all of my kids and grandkids. Well, many years have passed and I finally decided to start on this project. But not just me; Brian is writing his memories too.
I found a program that would format our book for printing and got started. But first, I needed a title. I’m not sure how I came to it, but I decided to use the name of a song I wrote. It’s the only song Brian and I ever sang together, and it’s about the journey we take through life, with Calvary being the true starting point. The song is called By Mercy and Grace, and I really think it sums up the life we’ve lived and hopefully continue to live for some time yet…It’s only by His mercy and grace!
Towards the end of the year, two of my brothers went into the hospital, another is already on palliative care and a fourth is scheduled for cancer surgery in the new year. We have been praying constantly for not only them, but so many of our family for various needs.
When I started to think about what my verse for the year should be, I came to a very familiar verse,
Hebrews 4:16
Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.
Right before Christmas, our pastor quoted this portion of scripture for the benediction, and confirmed that this was my verse for the coming year. We are truly in need of God’s mercy and grace!
Verses 14-15 state, Seeing then that we have a great high priest, that is passed into the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold fast our profession. For we have not an high priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our infirmities; but was in all points tempted like as we are, yet without sin.
May we walk through 2026 coming boldly before the throne of grace, knowing we have a Lord and Saviour who cares and is there, waiting for us to call on Him in our times of need!
My word for 2026 is Bold.
My Verse For 2025 Matthew 5:16
Make Him Known
Ever since we started our YouTube channel, we’ve been wanting to find ways to incorporate our faith in our videos. These three words seemed to confirm that desire. My prayer for this coming year is that we can more consistently share our faith with our viewers, and make Christ known.
Matthew 5:16
Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.
Reflecting on 2024
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Looking back over the past year. |
1. What were the highlights or accomplishments of the past year?
The first highlight was our granddaughter’s wedding in January.
The next highlight was Brian/OJ retired in May! We also moved into our little fixer upper, now our cozy retirement house, in May.
I guess the other main highlight has been continuing to post YouTube videos. We were monetized late in 2023, and we’re now earning coffee money from our videos! 😁
2. What were the major themes of the past year?
Well that’s easy! Work! What’s new, right?! We spent the majority of 2024 renovating the little fixer upper we bought in November of 2023. And again, consistently putting out YouTube videos all year! This year we documented all of our renovations.
3. What disappointments or regrets did you experience?
I can’t think of any disappointments or regrets! We’re enjoying being back home in our little house, and it’s great to have my husband home all the time!
4. What was missing from the past year?
I guess the one thing missing was free time. It’s been a very busy year, but as we come to the end of the year, things are slowing down, and we’re looking forward to the coming year.
5. What did you learn from the past year?
I learned that even in our mid sixties, we’re capable of doing a huge renovation project. I’ve also confirmed that this is the last time we do this! It’s time to slow down, relax, and enjoy retired life. Hopefully, Brian learned the same thing! 😃
Downsizing To a Little Fixer Upper For Retirement
Retirement is just around the corner!
As we thought about OJ’s upcoming retirement, we decided we wanted to spend this next stage of life in our home town. We have never strayed too far, but we have moved several times, and we felt it was time to go back home. It didn’t take long for OJ to find a little house he liked. I was not so easily convinced, given that this house required a lot of work before we could move in. But, in spite of being over 65 years old, I knew we could turn this little fixer upper into a cute little cottage.
Join us over on YouTube and follow our progress as we renovate this little house!
My Verse For 2024 ~ Lamentations 3:22-23
My verse for 2023 was Micah 6:8
He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the Lord require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God?
I wrote this…
As we step into this new year, I acknowledge my total dependence on my Lord and Saviour. I just want to walk humbly with Him, seeking his guidance day by day as I move forward, embracing change in whatever He has for me.
When I chose this verse last year, I had no idea what changes I would be embracing. Having turned 65 this year, I knew retirement was coming closer for Brian, but late in the summer he started talking about where he wanted to retire. We had originally thought we would retire right where we are now, but things have changed over the years, and we really don’t have anything keeping us here. So, Brian decided we should move back to our home town. I was thinking in a years time, but once he got that idea in his head, he wanted to start looking to see what might be available for housing. And then he found a little house. The first time we looked, just from the outside, I said, “No way, it’s too much work.” At first he seemed to agree, but he kept coming back to it, until I finally agreed to have a look inside. Of course it wasn’t long before we were making an offer, and within a little over a month we were the owners of this ‘little gem’.
I’m not sure what the coming year has in store for us, aside from a lot of work on our little fixer upper, but Brian will be retiring in the spring time, God willing! This will be a new chapter for us, and I’m looking forward to it.
As I was reading and thinking about this year’s verse, this scripture came up a couple of times. It’s one of my favourites.
It is of the Lord's mercies that we are not consumed, because his compassions fail not. They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.
Lamentations 3:22-23
I step into this new year thankful for my Saviour and God, for his compassion and his faithfulness. No matter how crazy this world around us is, and no matter how many times we fail Him, God is in control and will never fail us. His mercies are new every day.
My word for the year is NEW.
Several years ago I wrote a song :
New Every Day
Reflecting On 2023
Looking back over the past year.
1. What were the highlights or accomplishments of the past year?
The biggest highlight of the past year was Emberley having her final chemo! Another highlight was the birth of another grandson. Justin and Ruth welcomed a baby boy in August. Then in September, Jeremy and Ashley had a beautiful outdoor wedding.
In November we bought a little fixer upper! Brian will be retiring in the spring, and decided we should move back to our home town. The beginning of a new adventure!
2. What were the major themes of the past year?
I don’t know that there was any particular theme the past year, other than consistently putting out YouTube videos all year!
But come fall the theme was decluttering and downsizing, in preparation for a move to our little house in Carberry in spring of 2024. Then in November, the theme became renovations!
3. What disappointments or regrets did you experience?
I can’t think of any disappointments or regrets! I’m excited about moving ‘home’! It’s a lot of work to get the house ready, but it’s what we do, and we enjoy working together.
4. What was missing from the past year?
I can’t say that anything was missing from this past year. Emberley coming to the end of her chemo made anything else very unimportant. I’m just so thankful that she is through that stage and pray that she’ll continue to gain back her strength and her immune system.
5. What did you learn from the past year?
That my husband is crazy! I’m pretty sure he’s finding that out for himself, having taken on this renovation project! But I I’m crazy too, so we make a good pair. 😃
You can follow our progress on our YouTube channel, Coffee Walks and Whatever https://youtube.com/@CoffeeWalksandWhatever?si=eCCtJsxrWayTIQHs
Oral Lichen Planus and Life Update
Time for an update!
Aside from making my yearly review and scripture posts, I haven't been on this blog much for the past couple of years, so I decided I better get in here and let you know I'm still out here!
Even though my last update was almost two years ago, I still have many visits here every month looking for information on Lichen Planus. My posts, My Oral Lichen Planus Diet, Living With Oral Lichen Planus, and my Oral Lichen Planus Resource lists are some of my most popular posts. I hope these posts have been helpful to all who are seeking information about this terrible illness. I belong to a few groups online and hear so many stories of suffering far worse than I've experienced, so I do hope I've been a help.
How have I been the past two years?
What do I attribute my progress to?
Supplement List:
I take 8 supplements, some of which are blends or combinations of vitamins etc. The ingredient list is long on some of them, so I won't include the amounts of the ingredients in each one.
What am I doing these days instead of blogging?
Will I be back to blogging?
Verse for 2023 ~~~~ Micah 6:8
Last year I wrote:
As I thought about these things, I came across this verse that seems to best portray what I want my focus to be in the coming year:
Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee: because he trusteth in thee. Isaiah 26:3
As well intentioned as I was at the beginning of the year, I have to confess, there have been many days that perfect peace has eluded me. I haven’t stopped trusting, but I know I’ve allowed my mind to wander…to go to places that bring anything but perfect peace. I have not kept my mind on the Lord in the way this verse instructs.
This year, as I thought about what I want my focus to be, I was thinking something about moving forward, embracing change, new things, or the future. But as I was reading, I came across Micah 6:8 and knew that was my verse.
He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the Lord require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God? Micah 6:8
As we step into this new year, I acknowledge my total dependence on my Lord and Saviour. I just want to walk humbly with Him, seeking his guidance day by day as I move forward, embracing change in whatever He has for me.
Reflecting On 2022
1. What were the highlights or accomplishments of the past year?
The highlight of the past year was the Brian starting a YouTube channel in March. It came about when we were brain storming ways to raise funds to help out Justin during Emberley’s illness. We were watching a young guy walking around his city making videos and Brian thought, “I could do that!’ and so he did! It can be difficult coming up with a video at least once a week, but for the most part, it’s been fun and we’re looking forward to new adventures in the coming years.
I don’t know if I’d call it a highlight, but seeing Emberley out of the hospital more this past year has definitely been a blessing!
Attending church starting in spring when the mask mandates were lifted has been a highlight. Different from what we’re used to but we’re settling in and enjoying being there.
2. What were the major themes of the past year?
Emberley’s continued treatment for Leukemia has been the main theme.
The other constant has been the YouTube channel; coming up with places to go for a walk and trying out different ideas has been fun and challenging and definitely getting us out and about!
3. What disappointments or regrets did you experience?
I can’t really think of anything I would consider a disappointment or a regret. Of course we would love to see Emberley completely healthy and not undergoing treatment, but we’re looking forward to her ringing that chemo bell after her last treatment, hopefully in June.
4. What was missing from the past year?
I read my answer from last year and decided, it works for this year too… I guess I’m missing just having a normal life, one where I don’t have a granddaughter with cancer.
5. What did you learn from the past year?
I guess the main thing would be that we’re never to old to try something new or make a huge life change.
If we spend too much time focused on the negative things in this world or in our personal lives, it just gets us down. It’s so much better to have a positive outlook and make changes that will improve our lives. Some of those changes are just getting out of our comfort zone and getting in front of a camera. Others are more significant, like letting go of some things from the past, deciding to go visit a church and finding that maybe it’s the right place for us.
Verse For 2022~~~ Isaiah 26:3
I’m not sure how or when it came to me, but somewhere in the past couple of weeks I knew that my word for the year would be ‘Trust’. What else could it be? This past year has definitely been a reminder to me that the only way to get through each day is to trust in God. This world and our lives are in his hands, so what else can we do but to trust that he has a plan in everything we go through?
As I contemplated what I should write today, I was reminded of something I learned shortly after I came to know Jesus as my Saviour back in 1985. We’d begun home schooling out kids and in one of Dana’s Bible study books the lesson was on the account of Joseph’s life in Genesis. I think I may have gotten more out of that lesson than Dana did! It made such an impression on me as a baby Christian that years later I included it in my book.
Who would have thought that God had a part in Joseph’s brothers selling him into slavery? I’m sure when he was going through it all, even Joseph didn’t understand why all these things were happening to him, but he remained faithful to God nonetheless. It took many years before God’s plan became evident, but in Genesis 45:8a Joseph tells his brothers, “so, now it was not you that sent me hither, but God:” God had a plan for Joseph’s life, even though it meant he would have to endure pain and suffering. It’s so comforting to know that no matter how confusing, or how difficult the circumstances of my life may be, God is in control.
I also read a quote from Charles Spurgeon’s message, A Happy Christian.
“And you, friend, when you are in good full work, and wages are high, and the house is well-furnished, and the cupboard is full, it is very easy then for you to kneel down at family-prayer and thank God for his kindness; but how about it when the husband is sick, when the funds have got very low, and when the little children look at their father wondering where the next meal will come from — to be satisfied even then that it is all right! Oh this is a grand thing! This is just the mark of difference between the Christian and the worldling. The worldling blesses God while he gives him plenty, but the Christian blesses him when he smites him: he believes him to be too wise to err and too good to be unkind; he trusts him where he cannot trace him, looks up to him in the darkest hour, and believes that all is well. O Christian, if your heart is right, you will understand this spiritual satisfaction, and your soul will be satisfied in times of drought.”
As I thought about these things, I came across this verse that seems to best portray what I want my focus to be in the coming year:
Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee: because he trusteth in thee. Isaiah 26:3
There’s also a song based on Spurgeon’s words. It’s been a favourite for years, so I thought I’d include it.
Trust His Heart
Reflecting On 2021
Continuing my yearly tradition of looking back over the past year.
1. What were the highlights or accomplishments of the past year?
The highlight of the year was the birth of our granddaughter, Emilia. Another highlight was Jeremy moving back to Manitoba and starting work at a gold mine in Snow Lake.
Reconnecting with old friends through our fundraisers was a highlight…as well as meeting new people. Aside form those there weren’t a lot of highlights this year!
2. What were the major themes of the past year?
Illness seemed to be the theme of the year…covid in January, then Emberley’s leukemia diagnosis in March and continuing treatment, illnesses and hospitalization have taken up the year.
3. What disappointments or regrets did you experience?
No personal regrets, but the whole year has been disappointing….disappointing circumstances, disappointing relationships.
4. What was missing from the past year?
That’s a hard question. I guess I’m missing just having a normal life, one where I don’t have a granddaughter with cancer.
5. What did you learn from the past year?
You learn a lot when you have a crisis in your life. Most important is that with God we can get through anything. Second..life can change in a moment, we have no guarantee of tomorrow, so don’t take anything for granted. Third, you learn a lot about who you can count on and unfortunately, who you can’t. Covid had already revealed the true nature and character of many. But when our granddaughter was diagnosed with Leukemia some of the people I thought would be there to support us, encourage us and just be there to talk….or listen, were nowhere to be found. But at the same time, people I never would have thought of stepped up and stood in that gap…some were old friends, some just acquaintances and many were complete strangers. Until you go through something like this you don’t realize just how much a kind word can help. A phone call, a text message, a face book comment or even just a virtual hug and praying hands mean so much.
I hope I’ve learned to be that kind of person for others as well. I’ve never been good at knowing what to say to someone going through a rough time, but I’ve realized it doesn’t really matter what you say. It’s just taking the time to show that you care that makes all the difference. Years ago I wrote a song that speaks of this very thing.
Words Fitly Spoken
When you see someone that's hurting, do you say,
and do you share their burden, and brighten up their day?
Do you give them some comfort, as the word of God you share,
or do you ease their heartache, by showing that you care?
When we heed the Spirit’s prodding
we’ll never have regrets for the choices we have made.
And we may never know what a few words fitly spoken,
may do to lift the load of one who’s heart is broken.
weighing on your heart,
don’t let the moment pass by; just call or send that card.
You’ll quickly mend some fences when you take that step of faith,
for there’s no wound or chasm too deep for God’s great grace.
When we heed the Spirit’s prodding
we’ll never have regrets for the choices we have made.
And we may never know what a few words fitly spoken,
may do to lift the load of one who’s heart is broken.
don’t push that thought aside; don’t say I’ll waste my time.
A friendly hand extended may just help someone in need,
so kindle an old friendship, and allow the Lord to lead.
When we heed the Spirit’s prodding
we’ll never have regrets for the choices we have made.
And we may never know what a few words fitly spoken,
may do to lift the load of one who’s heart is broken.
Galatians 6:2 Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.
Philippians 2:1,2 If there be therefore any consolation in Christ, if any comfort of love, if any fellowship of the Spirit, if any bowels and mercies, Fulfil ye my joy, that ye be likeminded, having the same love, being of one accord, of one mind.
Proverbs 25:11 A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver.
Rejoicing In God’s Miracles
I wrote the song God's Miracles many years ago.
This is an excerpt from her post:
Lord give me the eyes of a child...
To see your hand in every gift and trial...
To marvel at your works…
To wonder at your grace…
To stand in awe and glorify your name…
God's Miracles
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